Vampires: people who are eating your time and energy. They are eating your attention and kindness. They do not need to be saved, they need tocry about the problem. And go through live as they used to. At 16, I read the book of Carnegie "How to stop worrying and start living." Then it made an indelible impression on me. Here is what he advises: Every time a person approached the author and cried out about his life. At first he felt sorry for him, then he realized that nothing changes in a person's life He began to ignore moaning and change topics into positive ones: “What happened? What was good? And the man began to approach not whining, but to talk about success! The meeting with Carnegie anchored him as joyful and positive!